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How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Are you watching your favorite rom-com, Friends, and wondering how to get your ex girlfriend back? They introduced you to it, and now it’s only them you can think of after a recent breakup. However, you must give each other space to recover from the breakup and reenter a new relationship after learning, growing, and improving your personal self. Read on to learn how. 

Understand Why the Breakup Happened

For your own good and future relationships, you must reassess the dynamics of your relationship and why the breakup happened. Look back at when you had a conversation with your ex, and she expressed the problems she experienced and the reasons attraction was lost. If not, and the breakup was recent, call and chat briefly to understand what went wrong. 

Otherwise, it’s up to you to become objective and consider what went wrong in the relationship. AstroInner’s Aidens says a relationship ends because of three things, namely;

  • Either of you was too needy or clingy
  • You were distant and disinterested
  • You had irreconcilable differences

Give Her (and Yourself) Space

Space is the best antidote for a breakup. Don’t text them immediately after a breakup; otherwise, you will appear desperate, which is unattractive. It’s time to think and check if you’re willing to endure the challenges and difficulties that ended your relationship. This no-contact rule is two-fold and benefits both of you. 

It also gives your ex a chance to miss and crave you more. On your side, it helps you realign your values and decide whether you really want them back or it’s just lust. You must first overcome your addiction to her if you want to get your ex-girlfriend back. Once she’s out of sight and out of mind, you’ll feel better about yourself and see you can survive without her in your life. 

Work on Self-Improvement

Getting back together with an ex requires you to transform yourself. Before weighing the pros and cons of getting your ex back, check in with yourself about where you’re at, what you want, and what has changed. In the weeks and months following the breakup, you should invest 50% of your free time and energy into building an exciting social and dating life. 

This is an excellent time to start a new hobby, learn a musical instrument, read mindful books, to improve your confidence, and take ownership of your emotions and mind. Personally, it was all about working out every day, hanging with the boys, playing football, and just doing anything intuitive to occupy my free time, including visiting AstroInner services for love readings. 

Re-establish Communication

A text is the best way to reconnect with your ex girlfriend. One or two texts are enough but don’t send paragraphs crying and begging them to come back. A well-worded text straight from your heart but full of reason and emotional maturity will surely make wonders. But before going down memory lane, you need to consider several factors, including;

  • How long it’s been
  • Why are you reaching out
  • Emotional readiness
  • Current relationship statuses
  • The potential impact on your current life

Start the conversation in an adult and mature way by being polite and kind. Most importantly, don’t apologize for getting in touch, like saying, “I am sorry to bother you.” There’s nothing to be sorry about. 

Apologize Sincerely (If Necessary)

Did you break up with them, or did they dump you? If your unsavory behavior led to the breakup, it’s best to apologize and create a foundation of truthfulness. Get to know your ex-partner again and ask questions about their thoughts and feelings. It’s obvious they’ll be mad and pissed at you, and it’s your job now to soothe them to calmness. 

Forgiveness in relationships is paramount, so figure out what to say to get her back after a breakup. Help them overcome their negative thoughts and emotions by being sincere and showing them that things will be different this time. It’s normal for some awkwardness, but the good thing is that it gets better with time. 

Rebuild Trust and Emotional Connection

Regardless of the time apart, if you’re in it wholeheartedly, love and respect your ex-girlfriend, it will be successful. Be vulnerable with your partner and create a safe space for them too to ignite an emotional bond. Ensure you’re not just missing them or craving to be with them just to fill the void of loneliness. 

Truthfully, it will be useless for you to try to revive a relationship with false reasons. Your behavior should reflect your willingness to rebuild the trust and emotional connection you had for each other. To strengthen your romantic relationship and get her back, spend as much time together as possible and make new experiences and memories. 

Plan a Thoughtful Meetup

A face-to-face communication is always better than talking via phone. It eliminates misunderstanding and helps you gauge their body language, including facial expressions and tone. Don’t bring up the topic of getting back together with your ex unless she raises the question. Neither is it the time to rehash old arguments. 

Avoid going too deep to promote an open and easy communication environment. Even so, meet somewhere public, like in a coffee shop or restaurant, to keep you calm and grounded and prevent relapsing into old patterns. Talk about the progress in your current life and genuinely ask about your ex’s current hobbies and passions. Maybe they started loving astrology.

Address the Relationship Issues

Take an accurate inventory of your relationship issues and determine if your values and principles match. Getting back with an ex involves talking openly and addressing the major issues you’ve always had, like mistrust and colliding values and plans. Seeing things from their point of view can help understand their stalling or going slow. 

From this point forward, you must mutually respect each other’s values and belief systems. Also, this is a chance to lay all your cards on the table and be honest about what each of you wants for a happy relationship. In short, do everything you can to separate fiction from real and the past from the present if your relationship will thrive. 

Show Consistent Effort Moving Forward

Honestly, be a changed person and stick to it. You must show them you have the right attitude toward the relationship and behave in a way they find attractive. For example, I was a lousy communicator, but every time I met my now-wife, I didn’t tell them I was a good listener; rather, my actions spoke more as I listened without judgment and was genuinely intuitive.

Be honest with yourself and them, and give them and your relationship more attention this time. Your commitment speaks a lot about making them count on you again. Wait patiently as they take time to decide on the matter. Meanwhile, stop looking for signs that show you might be back together and start acting, though you can contact a psychic expert from AstroInner. 

Know When to Let Go

Getting back with an ex involves patience, clarity of thought, and effort from both parties. If either of these things is lacking, it might be best to get on with your life. Sometimes the relationship is irreparable, and at this point, you should see yourself out with some dignity in you. 

Trust your gut or instincts if things start to backslide again. Walk away before things escalate, and you both experience another heartbreak. It’s important to note that no single action guarantees your ex will opt-in again. If anything you try doesn’t pan out, you’re better off without them.

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